A Not So Typical Taxi Ride

Taxi cabs, taxi cabs and more taxi cabs.  That is what fills the streets of NYC.  Famous photos have been framed and sold that capture images of taxi lined streets in this beautiful city.  Often times you don’t even know your cab driver’s name unless you look at his certificate in the backseat.  If you ask, he will tell you but usually he is too busy on his blue tooth to speak more than two words to you.  Those are usually, “Where To?”  Occasionally, I find myself trying to engage in conversation with my cab driver.  One reason is because it seems only appropriate to be nice to the guy that has your life in his hands for those 10 minutes across town.  And another is because nowadays most people you see in cabs are on their cell phone or IPAD or other electronic device too busy too notice what’s going on around them until they get a nice little whiplash in the backseat (which I swear those cabbies sometimes do on purpose just out of spite).  But I think every once in a while it’s nice to make him get off his phone and just have a conversation.  Why not?

I stumbled upon this below story written by a former NYC cab driver and I have read it so many times but it still makes me smile every time I stop and read it.  Warning: yes it’s sentimental and no it does not include a Mrs. Dr. cocktail recipe (shocking I know).  But perhaps if more people were like this driver, NYC would be a different kind of place.  He wrote this essay about a memorable passenger he had when he used to drive a taxi 20 years ago.  He later went on to write a book.  Enjoy.

I arrived at the address and honked the horn. After waiting a few minutes I honked again. Since this was going to be my last ride of my shift I thought about just driving away, but instead I put the car in park and walked up to the door and knocked.. ‘Just a minute’, answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor.
After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 90′s stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940′s movie. By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets. There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.
‘Would you carry my bag out to the car?’ she said. I took the suitcase to the cab, then returned to assist the woman. She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb. She kept thanking me for my kindness. ‘It’s nothing’, I told her… ‘I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother to be treated.’
‘Oh, you’re such a good boy, she said. When we got in the cab, she gave me an address and then asked, ‘Could you drive through downtown?’
‘It’s not the shortest way,’ I answered quickly.
‘Oh, I don’t mind,’ she said. ‘I’m in no hurry. I’m on my way to a hospice.
I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were glistening. ‘I don’t have any family left,’ she continued in a soft voice… The doctor says I don’t have very long.’ I quietly reached over and shut off the meter.
‘What route would you like me to take?’ I asked.

For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator.
We drove through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl. Sometimes she’d ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing. As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said, ‘I’m tired. Let’s go now’. We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico. Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move. They must have been expecting her. I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.

‘How much do I owe you?’ She asked, reaching into her purse.
‘Nothing,’ I said
‘You have to make a living,’ she answered.
‘There are other passengers,’ I responded.
Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug. She held onto me tightly.
‘You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,’ she said. ‘Thank you.’
I squeezed her hand, and then walked into the dim morning light… Behind me, a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life…
I didn’t pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly lost in thought. For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk. What if that woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient to end his shift? What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away?

On a quick review, I don’t think that I have done anything more important in my life. We’re conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments. But great moments often catch us unaware-beautifully wrapped in what others may consider a small one.  — The Last Cab Ride by Kent Nerburn

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